RKS 2023 Films: “Coming Around”: A Very Queerish Queer Documentary

The Canadian documentary “Coming Around” could be seen by some as a classic Liar Liar Your Pants Are on Fire story. Eman Abdelhadi is a Muslim queer of Palestinian descent living in Brooklyn, New York. She drinks, smokes weed, dances living a hajibless and openly queer lifestyle at least in Brooklyn. Her mother is a devout Muslim and is a psychiatrist in Columbus, Missouri.

The documentary flips between Brooklyn and Columbus. Her sister is also a devout Muslim. Eman simply can’t come out to her mother preferring to live a double life. In Brooklyn she is a feminist and even is a featured speaker at a Coming Out event but in Columbus she lives a live of deception on her frequent visits. Eman even enters into a 8 month long disaster of a “heterosexual” marriage celebrated in a Columbus mosque in an attempt to please her mother and half heartedly convince herself she can live the straight life. Hints galore have been thrown her mother’s way but at no point do I hear a frank and direct admission to her mother she is queer. The end result is not that her pants are on fire but her soul is.

One may derive the impression all queers come out like it is some sort of duty. Eman has great difficulty if not an existential dilemma in coming out so with deception to herself and her family she skirts the issue and “comes around” somewhat discounting her role and credibility as a feminist and a queer advising and mentoring on coming out. Is this a life of lies and deception or a poignant story of the agony queers may face coming out of the closet?

“Coming Around” is directed by Sandra Itäinen and premiers in Toronto at the Human Rights Film Festival on 8December2023.

Fascinating and creative.

RKS 2023 Film Rating: 84/100.

Dylan Stephen The Westie From The Land Beyond Unabashedly Wishes You a Merry Christmas

You may recall that I died on 13July2023 just shy of 15 years of age. I have accepted my death and I have many friends here in The Land Beyond. So many pets and humans. I am even friends with a cat named Snowball and so many dogs from my hood… Freddie, Oggie, Cody and Cindy.

Am I happy in The Land Beyond? Yes I am content and comfortable but happy? Not really as there is a hole in my heart for my Stephen family who are still in pain. Yes Master Robert was making soup the other day and he usually gave me a few spoonful’s of vegetable puree but he turned his head to call me and I was not there. Yet one of the many triggers of grief and there are many..still. Yes, it is all so logical. I became so very sick it was an act of human compassion that thankfully put me here in The Land Beyond. Logic and death are poor bedfellows. It was the right decision….it ended my suffering…but why all the grief?

The Stephen Family I know will never forget me but my wish is that the memories will be greeted with a smile instead of that awful feeling of loss. Tonight Master Robert was listening to Christmas music on the radio and suddenly a big smile about that embarrassing moment when I knocked down the Christmas tree and I was trapped underneath it. I was not hurt but massively surprised. But then that awful feeling took him over but finally I have noticed he smiles occasionally when he thinks about me. His goal is to associate pleasant and happy memories about me not to regret he can no longer have them. He owes that to himself and to me!

So to all dogs and dog owners enjoy your Christmas and owners when you give your dog turkey, gravy, mashed potatoes and carrots enjoy and cherish the moment as trite it may seem. Store them away. Cherish them. Check that turkey you give to your dog carefully for splinters and bones.

I wish you and your family and that includes your dog(s) a most merry Christmas. Make sure your Christmas tree is secure please!!!

RKS 2023 Wine: Trius Red “The Icon”: The Strong Man and The Two 99 Pound Weaklings

I think there won’t be much hooting and booing when I say Cabernet Sauvignon and Merlot aren’t exactly two of Ontario’s great grapes unless under the cover of “terroir” you bless their weakness by stating they have a distinct Ontario imparted quality to them. Bah Humbug says me the Wine Scrooge. On the other hand Ontario Cabernet Franc shines so when you blend Cabernet Franc with Ontario Merlot and Cabernet Sauvignon there may be some magic that rescues them from criticism.

With a 2020 Trius Red “The Icon” we have a blend of Merlot, Cabernet Sauvignon and the mighty Cabernet Franc. 43.9 % Cabernet Sauvignon, 32.3% Cabernet Franc and 23.3 % Merlot.

Aroma: Blackberry, black cherry, raspberry, and cocoa powder. With concentration one can distinguish some of the individual characteristics of the three grapes but the blending largely obfuscates readily individual identification.

Palate: Nippy tannins. A mid weight wine with a long dusty finish. Blueberry (Cabernet Sauvignon?), Cherry and cocoa (Cabernet Franc) and cherry (Merlot). I can’t really say which grape wins the Battle of The Blends”. Somewhere between soft and austere.

Personality: As a mixie I am not sure who I am. Who are my true ancestors? I might figure that out one day but now I am strong and say Merlot and Cabernet Sauvignon grapes matter….perhaps not as a single varietal wine but in a blend..you know just like a wine bottle where all grapes matter! You humans with colour of your skin fussing that only they matter can learn from us grapes!

Cellarbility: The wine is not yet at its prime. That will be after 2024 and it will cruise into the end of 2026.

Food Pairing: Should you eat at the Trius Restaurant in Niagara-on-the-Lake go for the Ontario Lamb tasting!

Price: $24.95 CDN (Ontario).

RKS 2023 Wine Rating: 89/100.

(Trius Red The Icon 2020, VQA Niagara Peninsula, Trius Winery, Niagara-on-the-Lake, Ontario, 750 mL, 13.5%).

RKS Literature: Child Abuse in 1839 England at Wackford Squeers School for Unwanted Boys (Charles Dickens)

“Pale and haggard faces, lank and bony figures, children with countenances of old men, deformities with irons on their limbs, boys of stunted growth, and others whose long meagre legs would hardly bear their stooping bodies, all crowded on the view together; there were the bleary eyed, the hare-lip, the crooked foot, and every ugliness and distortion that told of unnatural aversion conceived by parents for their offspring, or of young lives which, from the earliest dawn of infancy, had been one horrible endurance of cruelty and neglect. There were little faces which should have been handsome, darkened with the scowl of sullen, dogged suffering; there was childhood with the light of its eye quenched, its beauty gone and its helpless alone remaining; there  were vicious-faced boys, brooding, with leaden eyes, like malefactors in jail; and there were young creatures on whom the sins of their frail parents had descended, weeping even for the mercenary nurses they had known, and lonesome even in their loneliness. With every kindly sympathy and affection blasted in its birth, with every young and healthy feeling flogged and starved down, with every revengeful passion that can fester in swollen hearts eating its evil way to their core in silence, what an incipient Hell was breeding here.”

Charles Dickens “Nicholas Nickleby”, 1839

RKS 2023 Film: “Re: Uniting”: Together Again For The Final Big Chill

Some say this Bowen Island (British Columbia) set and shot film is an ensemble drama that is similar to “The Big Chill”. I can agree with that. It is in the reunion genre of film.

Let’s sort out the bad and good.

Sound echoes in the early moments of the film seem not to have been caught and corrected. The dialogue of these six former college best friends meeting after 25 years is somewhat shallow if not trite. That might have sunk the film but the very good of this film is the brilliance of the actors all delivering a stellar performance. The implosion explosion scene transports one to the intensity of a Shakespearean play. So give a standing ovation to Jesse L. Martin (as Michael), Michelle Harrison (as Rachel) and Bronwen Smith (as Carrie) and well deserved round of applause for Roger Cross (as Collin), Carmen Moore (as Natalie) and David James Lewis (as Danny).

The characters, all comfortable middle and upper-class types assemble, drink and smoke weed all rather playful and fun. Then the truth of how they perceive themselves oozes out and all are unhappy if not miserable. Then they have a mega explosion immaculately performed and a rather non-intended soap operatic if not comedic dialogue moves in the direction of destroying the film but is rescued by the brilliant acting which shunts aside the often-poor lines they are delivering.

An interesting delve-in to the nature of friendship where honesty, openness, forgiveness and acceptance of each other are qualities these characters apparently have forgotten for 25 years enduring the “miseries” of their life.

The nature of death and its rejuvenating qualities is examined.

While there are both positives and negatives to “Re-Uniting” the quality acting makes this movie worth a watch. Impressive soundtrack.

The film will be screening at Whistler Film Festival (British Columbia) on 3December2023. Virtual screening will follow on December 4th.

Written and directed by Laura Adkin.

RKS 2023 Film Rating 73/100.

RKS 2023 Wine: Agiorgitiko From Nemea in Greece

Nemea is a wine producing region in the Peloponnese.

This Driopi Agiorgitiko is from Nemea. Agiorgitiko has medium to deep ruby colour, dense ripe red-fruit character and sweet spices that lead towards a soft almost velvety palate with finely textured tannins, medium to full body and medium high alcohol. It can handle oak very well, however some fresh, fruit forward and crunchy unoaked easy drinking wines are also made.

Aroma: Black cherry is prominent with secondary notes of blackberry and cocoa. Aeration intensifies the dark cherry giving it an almost lush Merlot character.

Palate: Medium high tannins. Dark cherry rules the roost as it does with its aromatics. Nice little cactus pear twist on the moderately long finish. You will be well rewarded decanting for at least an hour before serving.

Personality: I am a serious wine that speaks its mind and has no time for chit chat. Greeks love to chit chat but I sense I am Germanic and would rather get down to business.

Food Match: In Greece you will find me enjoying the Aegean or Macedonia in Northern Greece and that is a pescatarian delight. I have eaten very little meat in these areas as fish is plentiful. Spartans on the other hand enjoy and consume meat. This wine would suit grilled lamb assuming it is not marinated in lemon, olive oil and herb mix. Hearty Greek stews such as rabbit stifado would pair well with the wine.

Cellarbility: Will improve over the next three years but consume by 2028-year end.

Price: $22.95 CDN (Ontario).

RKS 2023 Wine Rating: 88/100.

(Driopi Agiorgitiko 2020, P.D.O. Nemea, Tselepos Winery, Arcadia, Greece, 750 mL, 14%).

RKS 2023 Wine: A Douro White: Part of the Minority Club

Douro reds overwhelm Douro whites in terms of volume. The whites are in the minority in the Douro but as white wines of the Douro matter it is only fitting, we try a Cabral Reserva from the Douro a blend a Arinto, Rabigato, Gouveiro and Vioshino. You’ll find these white grapes in almost all Douro whites.

This Cabral was aged in older oak for nine months.

Aroma: Peach, apricot, orange blossom and Portuguese roasted almonds in somewhat of a rustic fashion.

Palate: Grapefruit, pineapple and guava all in a smooth down the hatch format. Acids are delightfully reticent. While many Douro whites are built more for food than simple sipping this wine is both a sipper and a foodie wine. The wine performs better being cool as opposed to cold.

Food Pairing: I won’t disagree with the back label saying that the wine is excellent with fish, white meat made from cream or butter. As for fish I love my sardines in Porto at Postigo do Carvão and some acidity better suits sardines so this wine would not suit them but it would suit a Robalao (sea bass) or a Dourada (sea bream) at my favourite seafood restaurant in Porto at Postigo at 24 R. da Fonte just up from the river. Call in advance and they might be persuaded to cook a Robalo in rock salt. And in addition to fish enjoy a variety of meats and incredibly delicious appetizers and desserts which must be paired with a Port!

Cellarbility: Consume by the end of 2024.

Price: $14.95 CDN (Ontario).

RKS 2023 Wine Rating: 85/100. Marc André Gagnon (vinquebec.com).

(Cabral Reserva 2020, D.O.C. Douro, Vallegre, Pinhao, Portugal, 750 mL. 13%).

RKS 2023 Wine: Chile Can Seem to do Little Wrong

As we move on closing 2023 Chilean red wines sparkle with many wines at a modest price and a high quality. In the hope I don’t have to eat my words we move to a red by the name of Sideral from San Pedro Tarapacá from the Valle del Cachapoal. It is a blend of 73% Cabernet Sauvignon, 11% Syrah, 9% Carménère, 4% Petit Verdot and 3% Cabernet Franc. 16 months spent in oak 20% of which was new.

Aroma: Stacked with blackberry, cassis, cocoa and a tad of licorice and almonds.

Palate: Blueberry saturation in this youthful wine. Supplementary notes of charcoal and spicy black cherry. Moderate tannins and a rather long peppery finish.

Personality: I am a strong-willed wine charging along like the bulls in Pamplona but as the young fools being chased by them I will mature nicely…hopefully!

Food Match: Fresh water perch chowder in a rosé sauce.

Cellarbility: Almost too young and firm to drink now and it needs from 2024-2028 to further evolve and gain softness and further character. Drink by 2030.

Price: $24.95 CDN (Ontario).

RKS 2023 Wine Rating: 91/100. Patricio Tapia 95.

(Sideral 2021 Cachapoal Andes, D.O. Valle del Cachapoal Andes, San Pedro Tarapacá, Santiago, Chile, 750 mL, 14.5%).

RKS 2023 Film: “Finality of Dusk”: Begging for Your Interpretation

If you were to select the genre of the film as apocalyptic, I would partially accept that. There is much more going on here than you might think and it might very well have to do with Canadian Indigenous lore and history if your mind lets you escape from the obvious message of “Finality of Dusk” which is dear humankind don’t keep on destroying your environment or you pay the price which in “Finality of Dusk” means poisonous air deadly in minutes. The year is 2044. The location bush country Manitoba, Canada. This theme of environmental destruction jives with the Indigenous attitude of taking from the environment with gratitude and respect instead of greedily consuming it all and facing peril because of that greed.

Ishkode (Marika Sila), an Ojibwe woman, and Niife (Cherrel Holder) an African climate refugee struggle for survival in this environment very much COVID patterned with governmental advertising/propaganda about the necessity to wear government approved masks and filters and many penalties for disobeying government promulgations. Whatever government is in charge here has an authoritarian bent. Ishkode and Niife are pursued by a deaf man Odin (Chris Dodd) who has a passion for murdering people and taking their masks while saturated by flashbacks of his wife and child he keeps watching from a recording of them communicating to him from an “air security camp”.

Adding to the terror are wild savage creatures resembling Grizzly bears of which we hear their ferocious howls and see only their shadows. They can hear far better than they can see so the survivalists like Ishkode and Niife in the Manitoba bush rarely speak for fear of attack.

Ishkode has a map she frequently studies with some writing on it “Arabim pa de mi ni Paradise”. What that means I know not but I surmise she is on a search for paradise. Or is this but a voyage to death in a world beyond?

As an apocalyptic film is but fair to middling. As Eagle Vision and APTN, the entities behind the television series “Tales from the Rez” are involved in its production one would expect an Indigenous slant which is bolstered by the film giving credit to a team of “spiritual advisors”. A non-Indigenous audience, including me, may not pick up the spiritual references in the film. But having some interpretive fun here how about saying Odin represents colonialism chasing both an African and an Ojibwe wishing to steal their rightful property (masks). Could it be the destruction of colonialism will result in liberation and paradise for colonized people? What is the Final Destination patch with an Indigenous drawing on it?

“Finality of Dusk” will have its Canadian premiere at the Whistler Film Festival in British Columbia screening on 1December2023 and virtually starting on 4December2023.

Directed by Madison Thomas.

RKS 2023 Film Rating 91/100.

RKS Tea Meister: Tea Squared’s Cranberry Purifier

From Toronto’s Tea Squared we try a “Cranberry Purifier” and there is no doubt of its cranberry nature on the nose. Elements of rhubarb, raspberry and rose petals. On the palate this pinkish orange brew has virtually no tannins. At entry McIntosh apple followed by cranberry and rhubarb. Minimal sweetness leads to the conclusion this is no “kiddie tea”. Just shy of being tart. Long and warming finish where the apple predominates more than the cranberry. No sugar added. Gluten free and ethically sourced. No caffeine.

$14.99 for 100 grams.

RKS Tea Meister Score 86/100.

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