RKS Literature: Passage of the Day: The Rabbi Wonders is it Jesus or Satan?

“During all these days and weeks that he had been running behind Jesus, battling to understand who he was, his ramshackle body had completely melted away. Nothing was left now but a sunbaked hide wrapped around bones to which the soul clung and waited. Was this man the Messiah whom God had promised him, or wasn’t he? All the miracles he performed could also be performed by Satan, who could even resurrect the dead. The miracles therefore did not give the rabbi sufficient basis to pass judgment: nor did the prophecies, Satan was sly and exceedingly powerful archangel. In order to deceive mankind he was capable of making his words and actions fit the holy prophecies to perfection.”

Nikos Kazantzakis “The Last Temptation” 1962

RKS 2023 Film: “The Case Against Cosby”: Innocent Until Proven Guilty?

The concept of innocent until proven guilty is shattered by the documentary “The Case Against Cosby”.

We listen to several Cosby’s victims interviewed stating they were drugged and sexually assaulted by actor and comedian Bill Cosby. One of his numerous victims is Canadian Andrea Constand, the only survivor to gain a conviction against America’s favourite dad. Constand, a star basketball player in high school and college, joined Temple University in Philadelphia as director of basketball operations. Cosby was a Temple graduate, a member of the Temple University board and a big fundraiser and supporter of the women’s basketball programme at Temple.  Cosby approached her casually over a period of a few months and then asked her to his suburban home. Constand was nervous and a bit flustered and Cosby suggested she have some alcohol and three blue pills to take the edge off. She agreed and lo and behold was paralyzed. She passed out but recalled being sexually assaulted by Cosby. Cosby took great care to groom Constand by ingratiating himself with her family. Gain the trust of the family and exploitation and assault is much easier. Both Michael Jackson and Cosby took grooming to the highest level.

We are introduced to some of Cosby’s victims including Renita Chaney Hill, Dona Speir, Stacey Pinkerton and Lisa-Lotte-Lublin who lay forth the Cosby strategy of alcohol, drugs and then sexual assault. It did not bother Cosby if minors were his victims. The local police in Montgomery County launch a criminal investigation and district attorney of Pennsylvania Bruce Castor decides not to prosecute Cosby due to “insufficient evidence”. He makes a deal with Cosby that if he gives a deposition in Constand’s civil suit against Cosby there will not be any criminal charges laid. Cosby gives the deposition which is sealed. Later it is discovered in this deposition his admission he used drugs and alcohol to sexually assault women. Cosby settles the suit with Constand compelling her silence with a non-disclosure agreement. A cross she admits she had to bear for another 10 years.

In 2014 a comedian Hannibal Buress is recorded on a phone by a journalist performing where he lambasts Cosby and it goes viral and women start coming out claiming they were victims of a Cosby sexual assault. A new district attorney commences criminal proceedings against Cosby where the presiding judge releases part of Cosby’s civil suit deposition where he explained his use of drugs and alcohol to pursue women. A mistrial was declared as the jury was hopelessly deadlocked. There is a retrial in 2018 in the midst of the Me-Too movement. He is found guilty on three charges and sentenced to 3-10 years in prison on September 25, 2018. In 2021 the conviction is overturned on appeal. Why? Because of the Cosby-Castor no prosecution deal agreed to if Cosby gave a deposition in the Constand civil suit should have prevented any criminal charges being laid against Cosby. This is not a declaration of innocence, as trumpeted by Cosby’s counsel, but a matter of improper judicial procedure. Some 60 women came forward claiming assault by Cosby but their actions were barred by statutes of limitation that prevent litigation/prosecution after a certain period of time has passed.

A small group of victims, including Constand, gather at a trauma recovery retreat in British Columbia run by Dr. Gabor Maté who discusses the nature of trauma and helps the women recover the best they can. Viewers will learn the nature of trauma and how it affects the self. An interesting foray into trauma but the pain and suffering endured by these victims is massive not only for them but their families.

We hear from police officers, family members, a forensic nurse, psychologists, prosecutors and the victims themselves. You might think well why these women didn’t pursue Cosby in the legal system but by watching this documentary you’ll understand what trauma does to victims and how that is exploited by defence attorney’s who interpret the effects of trauma on victims against those victims.

40 years of Cosby on the hunt with 60 victims coming forward is horrific but even more so when we hear from an expert that only 14% of sexual assault victims “come out” to seek justice.

So innocent until proven guilty is not entirely accurate given this 14% statistic and bearing in mind that trauma causes a retreat from oneself and often an attempt by the mind to heal by distancing a victim from the event. As Dr. Maté states when a body heals it leaves scar material that stiffens and for the mind causes a disconnection from the present and gives you a shame-based view of yourself so the last thing a traumatized mind wants is to reopen the trauma by coming out and dishing out justice to the aggressor.

On a personal note as a lawyer for many years I believed steadfastly in “innocent until proven guilty” but in instances of sexual assault “The Case Against Cosby” innocent until proven guilty holds little water because of grandstanding lawyers, statue of limitations and the nature of trauma. It took this documentary to change my mind. It’s never too late to admit I was blinded by that pie in the sky.

You can see the trailer here https://vimeo.com/776705393/0bd68eb06d?embedded=false&source=vimeo_logo&owner=51219433

Director is Karen Wookey.

You can see this documentary on CBC television and CBC Gem on 8January2023.

RKS 2023 Film Rating 90/100.

“The Penniless Pensioner: Misaligned, Maligned but Marvellous” :Chapter 24: Reading John Lennon’s Tea Leaves

Being half Welsh and half Indian my bloodline was comfortable with high tea. I went to the Plaza Hotel, well known for its high tea, and bought their incredible jasmine tea and some dainty cakes and sandwiches from the iconic Palm Room.

John arrived at 2 p.m. and we sat down to tea not before hearing a litany of complaints about Yoko’s “stuttering and screeching vocals”. John explained it was giving him a headache! John mentioned that after our tea he would be heading down to Nashville to help a Canadian singer Stomping Tom Connors lay down a track “Maple Syrup and Peameal Bacon Hogtown Paradise”.

I asked John to sprinkle a few leaves from the teapot basket in his cup. Turn it upside down in the saucer and turn it around one time. Before he gave me the cup I asked John if he wanted to hear both good and bad news. He replied that both were fine.

His wish would come true. There was a big sitar in his cup so out of the blue I asked if he had been chatting with Ravi Shankar. See what I mean by luck as he responded he had been talking with Shankar about a show in New York a few days ago. What disturbed me was a menacing figure in the darkness holding what appeared to be a sign with the initials H.C. Beside the sign there appeared to be a vehicle looking a bit like an ambulance. John could not make any connections. I explained in my thoughts that he should be careful of hot and cold water lest it led to an accident. We both had a good laugh and he headed up to his unit thanking me for the wonderful tea and dainties and my powerful mysticism. The H.C. and the ambulance began to make sense on December 8th.

RKS Literature: Passage of the Day: ,

“I have not come to bring peace to the world, but a sword. I shall throw discord into the home, the son shall lift his hand against the father, the daughter against her mother, the daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law-for my sake. Whoever follows me abandons all. He that seeks on this earth to save his life, shall lose it: and that he for my sake loses this temporary life, shall gain life for all of eternity.”

Nikos Kazantzakis “The Last Temptation” 1962

RKS Poetry: “You Stink”

You Stink

What wretch is putting these “You Stink” notes on my desk
Of course some obnoxious pest
31 of them in 2022
Oooooooh!
Of course this is not bothering me and I don’t give it a thought
my aggravation can’t be bought
With mindfulness I don’t give it any importance
who is gripped in this hateful trance?
Who, who and who?
To the perpetrator I am guessing it is you
I’ll soon expose you and it’ll be your turn to stew!
Sorry Marsha M. Linehan your radical acceptance is not going to work on me this time
Once I expose the culprit I will be fine

Robert K. Stephen

RKS 2023 Wine: Casas del Bosque 2019 Gran Reserva Cabernet Sauvignon

As we roll through Chile reasonable prices and high quality prevail but did I really need to relate that to you? The LCBO has been quite generous in listing Chilean wines in their Vintages releases. So get ready for a big Chilean invasion in 2023 in Canada. Can we push matters a bit and say buy Chilean and you’ll be laughing all the way to the bank?

Aromatics: Cheerful and chattering cherry, blueberry, rhubarb pie, red currants and a bit of leather.

Palate: The cheerful cherry isn’t relegating itself to aromas as it is on the palate again. Tannins are a bit chalky. There is also blueberry and raspberry. Short and authoritative finish.

Personality: With that cheerful cherry influence I am approachable yet be wary of a serious no nonsense wine.

Food Match: Sun died tomato and chickpea burger.

Price: $22.95 (Ontario).

Cellaring potential: The wine will marginally improve until 2027. Drink by end of 2029.

In a nutshell: Despite the cheerful cherry influence it is only an influence. A serious Chilean Cabernet Sauvignon with a unique character.

RKS 2023 Wine Rating: 91/100.

(Casas del Bosque 2019 Gran Reserva Cabernet Sauvignon, Maipo Valley, Casas del Bosque, Casablanca Valley, Chile, Liquor Control Board of Ontario # 353086, 750 mL, 14.5%).

“The Penniless Pensioner: Misaligned, Maligned but Marvellous” : Chapter 23: Strolling Central Park with John Lennon: Getting Shivers From Chapman

I met John in the lobby of the Dakota for our tour of Central Park. John explained to me the media was constantly on his tail as an ex-Beatle. We had a choice of a few service exits and we slipped out to a bright spring day and headed into the park. John had put his hair in a ponytail, was wearing sunglasses and a baseball cap so he simply looked like any other New Yorker. We walked undisturbed from one end of Central Park to the other. The lagoon, the zoo, the promenade, the baseball fields and hot chestnuts. Those warm honey coated peanuts were fantastic. John had a chuckle about the carts selling Nathan franks saying he had been dinged badly eating a chili dog from a cart a few years ago.

John explained to me that he was happy to have met me as so many people simply wanted to bask in his aura or exploit him for some purpose. He was pursued by other celebrities and was losing his touch with the common folk. He never forgot his humble days in Liverpool with Tony Sheridan, George and Paul. But gone were the days of anonymity. The price of fame. And they were attacking Yoko Ono mercilessly in the media labelling her as the breaker upper of the Beatles. As much as New York was bad for John he was addicted by its vibes but confessed he felt a bit like a prisoner in the cell of his Dakota pad. I offered him the use of my compound in Bombay and with its grounds he and Yoko could feel less like a prison. John thanked me and said he would think about it.

John showed me the Met and the Guggenheim and suggested when I have some time that I should go there. He avoided these museums as there were so many British tourists he felt he would be “outed”. At 5th and 92 we stopped at the Jewish Museum of New York and headed downstairs to the cafeteria for some lox and bagels. John loved the cafeteria for its good food and lack of hordes of tourists.

We returned to the Dakota and John asked me to join him for some ice cream. Yoko had a strange looking woman called Yayoi Kusama dressed half like a doll and a clown. John said she was a famous Japanese artist. We had some of John’s favourite ice cream from Toronto. It was Chapman’s a brand I knew well but that name Chapman suddenly sent shivers up and down my spine. Strange. Did I sense something foreboding? I thanked John for his hospitality and asked him if I could read his tea leaves. My granny in India Sula had taught me the skill. Essentially it was a question of luck meeting the obvious. On occasion I was spot on. It was set up for high tea at my place. John said that after that he was flying to Nashville for a recording session.

RKS 2023 Wine: Chilean Carignan: Undurraga T.H. (Terroir Hunter)

The Undurraga 2019 T.H. Carignan is from the Maule Valley of Chile which is Chile’s largest viticultural region and one of the most geographically and climatically diverse, encompassing the Andes to the east and the rolling costal hills to the west, which makes it possible for both red and white varieties to thrive. Unlike many of Chile’s viticultural growing regions the Maule Valley does not have maritime influences. This wine is from 50-year-old vines planted in granitic soils. 2,160 cases were produced. Undurraga was established in 1885. The wine was aged for 16 months in aged French oak barrels.

Aromatics: Raspberry, blackberry, black cherry and loganberry jam.

Palate: Moderate tannins with a lightning bolt of raspberry striking the palate immediately. Chalky finish. A gentle acidity prevents this wine from being jammy.

Cellaring potential: 3-5 years improving in the first three years and holding steady for another 2.

Price: $ 29.95. (Ontario)

Personality: Easy going but not flippant. I’m a real charmer!

Food matches: Duck breast in a Port reduction sauce.

In a nutshell: A wine that woke up on the wrong side of the bed and wandered into a raspberry patch.

RKS 2023 Wine Rating: 93/100.

(Undurraga 2019 T.H. (Terroir Hunter) Carignan , Maule Valley D.O. (Cauquenes Zone) Vina Undurraga, Chile, 750 mL, 14.5%)

“The Penniless Pensioner: Misaligned, Maligned but Marvellous” : Chapter 22: My Stint in New York Begins with a John Lennon Friendship

I arrived in New York off my Greyhound bus from Toronto. US immigration tossed off at least half of the Amish on the bus sending them back to Canada. I proceeded to the United Mutations headquarters near the corner of 43rd and Third very close to the United Nations where I met United Mutations representative Melanie Stumps. Stumps was kind enough to put me up at the International Hostel for Mutants way up in the 90’s in Harlem. Stumps said to me you have two weeks to find an apartment before you start your assignment. I would have preferred the Ritz-Carlton Central Park South but wanting to appear “part of the team” I took the bus up to Harlem. Being a bit sick of lodging in luxury hotels I bought a two-bedroom condo in a charming Gothic building called “The Dakota” very close to Central Park. I was having some trouble with my keys entering my condo and a long-haired fellow with glasses helped me. Being a neighbourly fellow, he invited the newby to tea at his “pad”.

What a jolly fellow with a British accent. I felt like I was back home in Bombay. Upon entering his pad he introduced me to his “old lady” Poko Tonyroma I believe her name was. His name was John Lennon. It had a familiar ring to it. We had a lovely pot of tea and some pot brownies and chatted for an hour or so.

I asked Mr. Lennon about all the guitars he had all over his “pad” and he explained he was a musician. I explained I was half Welsh and half Indian. My late mom was Juanita Wallabong a well-known singer of Bombay Blues and my dad was Paneer Gupta an entrepreneur. Well to my surprise Mr. Lennon was a fan of my mom and knew my father! How could that be! Well Mr. Lennon was John Lennon of that British group “The Beatles”! Damn it I knew that band. He told me he had just recorded one of my mom’s songs “Give Peace a Chance”! And when the Beatles were in India my dad had supplied them with lots of ganja! What a small world!

Poko Tonyrama sat by herself writing poetry and said nary a word. Mr. Lennon insisted I call him John. John invited me to take a long walk with him in Central Park the next day.