Reggie the Egyptian Rescue Dog Is Back: Reggie is Up for an Academy Award!

Needless to say, Bob, Fay, Dylan the Westie and I were floored when we received a call at lunchtime from Nicole Kidman in Los Angeles. “A Dog Saved My Life” is nominated for the best picture, Nicole Kidman for best actress, Mr. Gordon Lightfoot for best song, Reggie The Egyptian Rescue Dog-Russell Crowe for best actor and Dylan the Westie-Rick Mercer for Best Supporting Actor. Martin Malivoire was nominated for best special effects. To put it politely we are knocked on our ass big time. 30 minutes later Mr. Gordon Lightfoot is pounding on our door and we let him in. We all do a crazy dance like maniacs in the kitchen. We are going to Los Angeles!!!! Some of us could be kissing Oscar’s bald head with billions watching. Nicole insists that we all stay at her Malibu home with her husband Keith Urban and that includes Bosco and Mr. Gordon Lightfoot.

The film grossed a relatively small 275 million USD but received high critical praise. Tubby Tubeman’s review from the New York Grimes film review was a big factor in warming up the United States critics.

“Tubby Tubeman

“A Dog Saved My Life” delivers an enchanting and heart-warming story about a dog named Paco (Reggie the Egyptian Rescue Dog) that saves Alice Springs (Nicole Kidman) from moral and spiritual destruction and perhaps even death.

In what could be a maudlin storyline Kidman soars above the mundane delivering a performance beautifully tinged by angst and desperation and in effect is saved by mixed breed Paco a street dog from the Dominican Republic. It may be difficult to not have tears rolling down your face several times during the film. Her chemistry with Paco is a laser beam of trust and hope. This may be Kidman’s best performance ever.

Reggie the Egyptian Rescue Dog makes his first appearance on the big screen although you know he has been featured in two Disney films and on an ABC sitcom. He has hobnobbed with high political and religious figures including being very close friends with Joe and Jill Biden. His world maturity is evident in the film as his every move seems a reflection of Kidman’s mood. Watching those two is nothing short of a massive treat that at time both breaks your heart and makes you want to cheer. Russell Crowe as the voice of Paco is measured and he picks up his voice beautifully to match with Paco’s predicament.

Dylan the Westie plays a small 10- minute role for what originally was to be a thirty second performance but director Darren Mann on intuition films 9 extra minutes as he said he was captivated by both the wisdom and empathy in Dylan the Westie’s eyes. He is an old dog. He delivers a performance of an experienced actor as a wise Dominican street dog that takes Paco under his wing and gives him moral guidance not as we humans might expect it to be in but in a rather innovative and doglike fashion if such is possible.

Canadian veteran songster Gordon Lightfoot’s moody but very catchy song “Paco A Girl’s Best Friend” lifts this rather quirky film to the highest heights possible. Martin Malivoire adds some seamless and stunning special effects throughout the film including an unforgettable sea crocodile fight between Paco and the reptile.

I never thought one of these ‘dog is man’s best friend” films would sweep me off my feet but I am knocked on the ground moaning, “GIVE ME A SEQUEL!”

Dylan the Westie has previously won a Nobel Peace Prize for Literature shared with his owner Bob but may I dare say he may be on the podium along with Crowe to receive a best actor award at this year’s Academy Awards”.

Golf and Your Mental Game: Golf as a Necessity or a Luxury?

I say Bravo to you for being on the golf course. Why? Because I think you are setting aside several hours to (hopefully) enjoy yourself. Let’s call this an example of self-care. You have carved out time to play a game you love or perhaps are addicted to? Do you prefer being a “corporate hero” burning the candle at both ends” for a pat on the back which more often will be a kick in the ass out the door when you are a very old 55. Type A personalities are often candidates for heart disease and burnout. Incessant work is depleting for both the mind and body.

So if you find yourself on the golf course I say you are in the right place and taking the time to care for yourself. This is not to say you are free to ignore family and social obligations. Cut out self-care then stress and pressure will intensify. If golf is causing you frustration and aggravation and is becoming unenjoyable don’t waste your self-care time on it. Take up curling, tennis or fishing. There is a self-care groove out there. So if you get heat at home for the 6 hours whittled away getting to and from the golf course and playing the game pull out the self-care card! You are worth it.

Golf and Your Mental Game: Should You be Playing Golf at All?

Nourishing activities are those that restore energy and depleting activities make you worse. Assume you are on the golf course and you begin to notice the depleting moments outweigh the nourishing moments. If you are leaving a golf course in a worse mood than when you arrived should you ask yourself should you be there in the first place. I know several people who gave up the game as they no longer were having fun and enjoying themselves.

It could be these people could not step back and recalibrate and realizing they were reacting rather than responding to elements of their game.

If you can’t manage your mental game well the lack of proper mental responsiveness may send you a negative spiral so why bother with the game?

RKS Film: “Arctic Void”: Devoid of a Thrill but Full of Questions

“Arctic Void” describes itself as a thriller but I am neither thrilled nor horrified. I would better categorize the film as a mystery. I have a lot of questions as to why and whom! As a viewer you most likely will be asking the same questions. However there is no spoon feeding here giving you an easy answer and that may be part of the fun as you the viewer will have to make your best guess as to the who and why!

A travel show producer Alan Meursault (Tim Griffin) and on screen commentator Ray Marsh (Michael Weaver) are on assignment in the Arctic Circle in Norway on a small cruise ship sailing along the Norwegian coast with twenty or so passengers. A last-minute replacement for the usual cameraman Sean Tibbets (Justin Huen) joins them. Why does Tibbets have a tape recorder and headphones in a lunch pail? There are some very weird noises on the tape. What are these weird noises?

All the passengers disappear except for Alan, Ray and Sean all of whom have listened to the tape recording in the lunch pail. Are these noises life saving?

They see what looks to be a small mining town and they land there taking the motorized launch. Of course the town is deserted. Where have the inhabitants gone?  It is in Russia. A very cool set which both in its exterior and interior remind one of the Stalinist era. The mining town creates a sense of overwhelming desolation. It may be old but it captivates one as well as the rich cinematography.

Why are the lads seeing birds without eyes, polar bears with open wounds and a deer bleeding to death?  Why is a walrus goring its newborn to death? Why is Alan covered with gaping bloody gashes?

Who is Sean working for? As he tells Ray they are people you don’t want to know. Of course, the conclusion of the film certainly gives veracity to his statement.

Many questions are answered although who Sean is working for and what they are up to is never fully explained. Are these people behind all the weird occurrences? Are the disappearing people the result of some experiment? Are these disappearances part of some supernatural phenomena or explained logically?

If you are a curious person this film may be for you. A mystery slowly develops and you should enjoy the ride. The mystery may tag on your brain after the film which is indicative of the hold the film may have on you. You may also appreciate the not happily ever after ending.

The performances are good giving the characters credibility.

This 2021 US/Norwegian film is directed by Darren Mann and written by Michael Weaver.

The film will be in theatres (assuming Omicron has not closed them) and on VOD as of January 14th.

You can catch the trailer here https://vimeo.com/644555684/a2b077bc31

Golf and Your Mental Game: Taking a Moment

This golf season working as a Marshall I saw quite a lot of reactivity to bad shots. Often it sets in before the ball has landed because the golfer knows trouble almost immediately after making contact with the ball the shot is a bad one.

I wonder if we can step back and say something revolutionary for a golfer’s mind. That is that there are no bad shots just shots? Errant balls are simply part of the game so is it correct to say before exploding in anger and frustration just view it neutrally as a shot in a series of shots?  Or put another way instead of an emotional explosion realize that good and bad shots are simply part of the game. Hard to take this philosophy because golf is a passionate game for many!

Another approach to avoid reactivity to that less-than-ideal shot is simply to stop and take a moment to calmly ponder the shot just made and your reaction to it. Self analysis of your body and breath reaction. Then simply take note of it. Where does a strong negative reaction get you? Nowhere too pleasant. Wouldn’t it be preferable to respond to that shot and calmly determine what could have gone wrong and can that mistake be avoided next shot or playing the shot from the same position in a future round?

Reggie the Egyptian Rescue Dog Is Back: Our North Korean Experience

After our sumptuous feast with Kim and his sister we return to our hotel. Bob leashes us up and takes us for a walk. There are no people on the streets. There is no pee mail in this town of Pyongyang. Could it be all the dogs, a symbol of bourgeoisie decadence, have been confiscated and turned into “hot dog pot” in an effort to avoid mass starvation? We are tailed on our walk by a rather fat Korean man who perhaps has been helping himself to many dog dishes. For the heck of it we run here and there and lose the fat fellow. Hopefully he is not executed tomorrow.

Kim has provided us with a “guide” who will drive us for our two-week tour of North Korea. Joe Biden had said this would happen. The guide is there to protect us against making any errors like mentioning any criticism of Kim’s leadership or showing any disrespect to the monuments erected in his honour. Dylan the Westie was about to pee in front of a monument erected to honour Kim but the guide pulled him away just in time as if he had peed where he wanted to he may have just been executed.

We had a wonderful tour of North Korea including a tour of the DMZ where we were cheered by North Korean troops. I loved Tejhu Island and for green tea Boseong is incredible.

Bob has travelled years ago in the Iron Curtain countries under communist rule. He said he was free to travel in Romania, Bulgaria, Czechoslovakia, Poland, Yugoslavia and Hungary without being harassed by the security apparatus. Bob said he mingled freely with the citizens of these countries and a few had the courage to whisper, “We are capitalists.”

Although here in North Korea Bob notices the citizens would like to meet us but with our guide they have a reticence that is unnatural. They look emaciated and haggard yet every night we eat at a “Comrades Buffet” which are a series of restaurants for communist party members and there is no dog on the menu but lots of pork and chicken with German beer and wine.

We feel like we are in a cocoon detached from reality. After two weeks of an incredible tour we are back in Pyongyang for our last night with Kim and a dinner of epic proportions. Kim and Bob retire to a viewing room to see the Grey Cup 2021 that we attended and of course Kim who loves a show sees Dylan the Westie and I romping around the field and says in 2022 he wants to attend a Grey Cup game. A closet Canadian Football League fan! Bob says he will try and arrange it.

Kim attaches an envelope to my collar addressed to Joe Biden before we go. We hug and are given many gifts by Kim. He says he hopes to see us at the next Grey Cup game and Bob says if you come stay with us in Toronto. Kim bobs his head up and down and says good-bye and adds you are like our people and are not filthy capitalist roaders. If we seek to ease world tensions let us do it with your Prime Minister Trudeau as a peace broker with the American capitalists.

This is getting a bit complicated for me. The media portrays Kim as a wild maniac butcher. Is he a nice man as I think he is? Perhaps the fate of the Koreas rests with an invitation to the 2022 Grey Cup Game?

We have our breakfast and head out to the airport to our private jet for the trip home. Kim has loaded several kilos of the best North Korean green tea, kimchi, North Korean beer and special on-board dinners of beef ribs. Thank goodness there is no hot dog pot!

Golf and Your Mental Game: That Voice in Your Head That Never Shuts Up

Do you hear that voice in your head that is often judging, nagging, criticizing or analyzing? Can you silence this voice at least momentarily? Indeed you can and its through meditation where by practice you realize that voice is nothing but a barbarian at the gate and you are left in a rare moment of tranquility where all you have is your breathing and an awareness of your entire body. Your mind welcomes such a break.

But we can’t meditate ourselves out of the world unless of course you are a Buddhist monk.

What voice is shadowing your mind on the golf course?

There is the self-critic ready to start chattering and dissing you with that not-so-great shot. How long it chatters may be up to you. I tend to ignore it and it shuts up! It tortures you if you let it. I should have laid up. I should have gone for the green. I should have clubbed own by one. I should have realized I had a bad angle and shot under the branches instead of trying to go over them.

Then there is the backward coach which instead of coaching us how to improve our game incessantly tells us what we can’t do. Don’t go over the water and lay up. It prevents us from challenging ourselves and experimenting with our game and leaves us in a sameness rut.  Go ahead an occasion challenge that backward coach.

And there is the hungry voice that tells us we need something but really we only want something. With want there is more choice than needing. The needy voice has a tendency to have you always asking for more. Yes you must go for the green!

Then there is the voice that tends to see danger and threats everywhere almost always over the top. Don’t use a three iron lightly to go under the branches as it can’t work so go over the trees. This voice is almost guaranteed to ruin your game.

Remember that voice chattering away in your noggin tries to have you believe what it is saying is a fact but in reality it may be nothing more than a thought. Many thoughts are completely untrue or partially true.

Remember you are the golfer so recognize the different voices then make a choice whether to heed them or not instead of being ruled by them. You are on the course now and you have the power to be satisfied with your game without those voices.

I will leave you with an example. I had a second shot on the 6th hole. I have been in the same position a few times and I have not managed to get the loft to go over the trees but hit them and dropped. So I decided a couple of times to try and go low under the branches. On the second try a hard blast that just nicked the lower branches and dropped. That critical voice began nagging me about poor club selection and the stupidity of trying to challenge the trees. But the shot was brilliant and it was only a matter of inches that prevented to shot from being on the green. I ignored the voice and yes I was happy with the shot and my strategy in making it. An errant shot need not always put you in the doghouse. I told that voice to shut up and it did. In defeat there can be dignity! I coached hockey for 7 years and our team won four championships. But one year we had staged a massive comeback of 4 goals in the third period of a championship game to tie it with 30 seconds left. We lost the game in overtime which I thought would be devastating but those kids taught me a lesson about defeat. They were sky high with delight and accomplishment with such an astonishing comeback. The locker room was joyous. In defeat there can be joy. The result on your scorecard may be not what you wished but the journey to that score may be joyous. You conquered some very difficult holes but screwed up on all the par threes. Take the good and surf with it.

You are dealing with strategy and risk on just about every shot you make on a golf course. Do you want that voice putting additional pressure on you? You have been playing golf for years many of you so trust your experience over your voices. For newer golfers you are trying to “find your game”. On occasion that voice may be truly coaching you but more often than not it can be playing on your insecurity and lack of confidence.

Reggie the Egyptian Rescue Dog Is Back: Off to North Korea!

After we wake up and have our bowl of kibble and a half cup of jasmine tea in our water bowl Bob takes us dogs aside and says we have a call with President Joe Biden at 2 p.m. What is going on?

At 2 p.m. we have a virtual meeting with President Joe Biden and his new German Sheppard puppy Commander.

Joe talks with Bob and mentions he would like to send Dylan the Westie and I to North Korea on a “friendship tour”. We are not to act as spies. We are to contact their leader Kim Jong Un and tour the country and meet North Koreans. We are apolitical ambassadors from the West and North Korea has allowed my two Disney movies to be shown to the public and they love the film. Bob will take a message to Kim from Joe saying please welcome Reggie and Dylan the Westie who wish to discover the glorious republic of North Korea and establish a friendship base that we political leaders can build upon.

We arrive in North Korea on our private jet and Bob, Fay, Dylan the Westie and I step off the plane and there is a band playing the Canadian national anthem and children throwing flowers on our path to a huge Russian Zil Limousine.  North Korean politicos shake Bob and Fay’s hand vigorously and nod and bob like we are old friends.

We are whisked to our hotel and have a huge suite. Bob says we are being watched so I feel uncomfortable especially since North Korea’s famine has resulted in bourgeois dogs being rounded up and used for food!

We eat a delicious meal at a restaurant with some dignitaries. No expense has been prepared and Bob and Fay feel a bit guilty considering that media in the west has been reporting a terrible famine in North Korea. At least we dogs are not on the menu!

We have a restless sleep on our gift beds which have a hammer and sickle on them. Back to the days of Stalin?

We spend the day with a guide seeing the sites of Pyongyang and are back at our hotel named “Hotel of Our Glorious Leader” at 5. A variety of cocktails are served by waiters in white outfits with white gloves. Bob and Fay have showers and at 7 the Zil arrives again for our trip to the Palace of Our Glorious Leader where we will have dinner with the glorious leader Kim.

We are welcomed like long lost brothers and Dylan the Westie and I are taken to Kim with Bob and Fay being barred by soldiers with bayonets.

So it is us dogs with what many think is a crazed leader. Kim welcomes us with a chicken treat. He says come my friends and we jump on his lap. He strokes our heads and says in perfect English that we are welcome in his country and he wants us to meet its people. He sees the message from Joe on my collar and reads it and laughs. He seems to be in agreement with it. Before we leave he says, not thinking I can understand him, that he welcomes us and the people of North Korea must meet us.

I have seen many news articles and documentaries about Kim that he is a bloodthirsty tyrant but who is this man?

We have a private dinner with Kim and his sister and the talk is of Canadian football and Canadian wine. We noticed that there are wines from Meyer Family Vineyards from British Columbia. Bob brought several mincemeat pies from Toronto which Kim counters with Kentucky Rye Whisky! Kim asks shyly if he can be invited to the next Canadian Grey Cup championship football game.

There must have been twenty courses served. We dogs get rice and “Great Revolution” chopped chicken! YUM! WE DOGS LOVE CHICKEN!

With good spirits and bloated bellies, we retire to a private screening room to watch “A Dog Saved My Life”. With Bob and Kim smoking Cohiba Cuban cigars and drinking Japanese single malt whisky we are one happy family. Is there something wrong with this picture?

Reggie the Egyptian Rescue Dog is Back: It’s a Wrap!

Reggie the Egyptian Rescue Dog is Back: It’s a Wrap!

Four months after we arrived in Darwin we have finished shooting “A Dog Saved My Life”. I worked almost every day and enjoyed every minute of it although Nicole Kidman made sure I was hydrated as she said this Australian sun can suck the life out of you. I admire the dedication of Nicole as through thick and thin she motored on without showing a bit of fatigue. And we were working 12 hours a day in the heat. I made a few mistakes and never a harsh word from Nicole rather an encouraging statement that she knew I could do better. Nicole is an inspiration for all humans and dogs!

The film goes into postproduction over the next month so Nicole suggested in case of a reshoot I may have to return but she thought that would be unlikely. Bob and Fay had their walk on scene which was a 30 second argument before Alice and her third abusive husband entered the restaurant. Their cameo went well with only one shoot. Dylan the Westie also had a cameo but I forgot what it was about! Sorry! Bosco stayed with us for the entire shoot as Mr. Gordon Lightfoot’s tour kept extending itself and he’s finishing off recording an album in South Korea and he’ll be heading off home to Toronto soon after we arrive there. Mr. Gordon Lightfoot is now experiencing stardom like he has never seen it before. He is over 80 and barrelling along like he never had that aneurysm in 2002 and stroke onstage in 2006. His song for the film “Paco A Girl’s Best Friend” was number 1 on the Billboard charts for 12 weeks! For the South Korean album both Nicole and I are on the album cover!

The film will preview in Sydney in April then in Los Angeles in May. We have been invited to the screening and all sorts of parties. Stars and celebrities will be as thick as thieves. Nicole has insisted we stay with her and Keith in Los Angeles for as long as we like. That is going to work out well as Bob wants to play golf in Palm Springs and Fay wants to go to Joshua Tree National Park there. Bob knows a fantastic Mexican restaurant there. Fay wants to go shopping.

After a few hugs and tears Nicole waves goodbye and we are off to Darwin Airport to our private jet to take us home. We stop for refuelling at Sydney and then in Honolulu where we stay the night so the pilots can get some rest. We had a swim on the beach and went out for dinner by the beach so Dylan the Westie and I could be with Bob and Fay. I don’t remember much being so tired so Dylan the Westie and I slept under the table. Bob and Fay enjoyed their Hawaiian dinner.

In the morning up in the air again refreshed. So much so Dylan the Westie and I chase the ball down the aisle on the jet. We stop for refuelling at an airport in Scottsdale, Arizona and in five hours we are at the airport in Toronto and home before we know it.

Bob orders some pizza a “Sherman Special” with artichokes, sundried tomatoes and chicken. As a treat we dogs get a big chunk. Such rich tomato sauce. Not as good as Fay’s but pretty tasty. Now I don’t want to be gross but the Bridle Path is our hood and as Dylan the Westie and I have been away for 5 months there is a lot of pee-mail to mail and check. But it is winter here in Toronto and so cold. Dylan the Westie and I have our “A Girl’s Best Friend” t-shirts on but it is so darn cold here in Toronto we skedaddle back home real quick. Bob watches the news with us dogs and puts us to bed. I noticed in the corner we sleep in just off the kitchen Bob has added an autographed picture of Nicole Kidman. We already have pictures of the King of Sweden, Mr. Gordon Lightfoot, Joe and Jill Biden, the Pope and the Ayatollah. Bob tells me tomorrow Joe Biden wants me to do him a very secret favour. I’d do a lot to help Joe and Jill as they are not the President and the First Lady. They are Joe and Jill and if you call him “Sleepy Joe” to my face I just might nip your ankle. Oh to sleep in my wonderful Winnipeg Jets doggie bed!

Four months after we arrived in Darwin we have finished shooting “A Dog Saved My Life”. I worked almost every day and enjoyed every minute of it although Nicole Kidman made sure I was hydrated as she said this Australian sun can suck the life out of you. I admire the dedication of Nicole as through thick and thin she motored on without showing a bit of fatigue. And we were working 12 hours a day in the heat. I made a few mistakes and never a harsh word from Nicole rather an encouraging statement that she knew I could do better. Nicole is an inspiration for all humans and dogs!

The film goes into postproduction over the next month so Nicole suggested in case of a reshoot I may have to return but she thought that would be unlikely. Bob and Fay had their walk on scene which was a 30 second argument before Alice and her third abusive husband entered the restaurant. Their cameo went well with only one shoot. Dylan the Westie also had a cameo but I forgot what it was about! Sorry! Bosco stayed with us for the entire shoot as Mr. Gordon Lightfoot’s tour kept extending itself and he’s finishing off recording an album in South Korea and he’ll be heading off home to Toronto soon after we arrive there. Mr. Gordon Lightfoot is now experiencing stardom like he has never seen it before. He is over 80 and barrelling along like he never had that aneurysm in 2002 and stroke onstage in 2006. His song for the film “Paco A Girl’s Best Friend” was number 1 on the Billboard charts for 12 weeks! For the South Korean album both Nicole and I are on the album cover!

The film will preview in Sydney in April then in Los Angeles in May. We have been invited to the screening and all sorts of parties. Stars and celebrities will be as thick as thieves. Nicole has insisted we stay with her and Keith in Los Angeles for as long as we like. That is going to work out well as Bob wants to play golf in Palm Springs and Fay wants to go to Joshua Tree National Park there. Bob knows a fantastic Mexican restaurant there. Fay wants to go shopping.

After a few hugs and tears Nicole waves goodbye and we are off to Darwin Airport to our private jet to take us home. We stop for refuelling at Sydney and then in Honolulu where we stay the night so the pilots can get some rest. We had a swim on the beach and went out for dinner by the beach so Dylan the Westie and I could be with Bob and Fay. I don’t remember much being so tired so Dylan the Westie and I slept under the table. Bob and Fay enjoyed their Hawaiian dinner.

In the morning up in the air again refreshed. So much so Dylan the Westie and I chase the ball down the aisle on the jet. We stop for refuelling at an airport in Scottsdale, Arizona and in five hours we are at the airport in Toronto and home before we know it.

Bob orders some pizza a “Sherman Special” with artichokes, sundried tomatoes and chicken. As a treat we dogs get a big chunk. Such rich tomato sauce. Not as good as Fay’s but pretty tasty. Now I don’t want to be gross but the Bridle Path is our hood and as Dylan the Westie and I have been away for 5 months there is a lot of pee-mail to mail and check. But it is winter here in Toronto and so cold. Dylan the Westie and I have our “A Girl’s Best Friend” t-shirts on but it is so darn cold here in Toronto we skedaddle back home real quick. Bob watches the news with us dogs and puts us to bed. I noticed in the corner we sleep in just off the kitchen Bob has added an autographed picture of Nicole Kidman. We already have pictures of the King of Sweden, Mr. Gordon Lightfoot, Joe and Jill Biden, the Pope and the Ayatollah. Bob tells me tomorrow Joe Biden wants me to do him a very secret favour. I’d do a lot to help Joe and Jill as they are not the President and the First Lady. They are Joe and Jill and if you call him “Sleepy Joe” to my face I just might nip your ankle. Oh to sleep in my wonderful Winnipeg Jets doggie bed!

Golf and Your Mental Game: Golf Can Be Like Being Caught in a Traffic Jam!

Yes we have all been caught in a traffic jam. It can be a hopeless and frustrating situation as you can’t control the traffic flow. Again it is along the lines of react vs. respond. I realized this a few years ago returning home after a long week at work. How could I have chosen to return home along Church Street on a Friday before the Gay Pride Parade when the parade would be rolling down Church Street! It’s going to take me two hours extra to get back home! How stupid could I be! What a bad choice! Then my newly minted mindfulness training got hold of me and I realized I was reacting over something I had no control over. Perhaps I should just let unpleasant moments be what they are, unpleasant moments-no less no more. Isn’t it better to respond than smearing negative reactions all over you? By responding you realize you are caught in a bad situation then respond by thinking if you can escape that situation. Luckily I became creative and knowing the area well took a detour that landed me 20 minutes away from my destination but in the end beat the time I would have been stuck in traffic.

So, golf is a bit like being caught in a traffic jam as getting too caught up in a bad shot or a bad game and reacting to it accomplishes little but more suffering. It could be your skill level is what it is and you are caught up in the traffic jam of golf. Can you escape it by changing your technicals or do you simply stew in your negativity. I suppose that is your choice!